Tuesday, November 18, 2008

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Reflections: Death in the Crib





Hello friends, I hit this thoughtlessness Laura Gutman writes on this subject commonly called crib death, feels a bit of chills and makes the heart raisin ... but it is very true ...


Lean think ...



crib death

When the news spreads by the sudden death of a baby, fear of the unpredictable and the false assertion that the possibility is "random," meaning that it can happen to our baby at any moment seizes us, with the idea that chance will depend on the good or the bad luck we have.

But things are not so. The "sudden death" is misnamed. We should call "crib death" . To be precise, we should call it: "crib death while alone.." No healthy babies die suddenly in the arms of a person maternante . Discuss whether to put them to sleep face up or face down, reflecting the appalling ignorance of Westerners share the universe of babies. The only thing to investigate is whether the babies sleep alone or sleep in complete and absolute contact with another human body. All

breeding mammal of any species known to can not be alone , because it is exposed predators. The human baby knows exactly the same, so it uses its two main tools for survival: the crying and sucking. However, if after mourn and mourn and mourn, no adult goes to save him ... because "you have to get used to sleeping alone," appears resignation and painful certainty of knowing you are alone in this world. Then, in their eagerness to be loved, to reclaim presence and body contact in many ways: getting sick, crying at inappropriate times, hurting, not gaining weight, depressed ... until one night ... in the midst of a profound silence, decides not to wake up . What

do men and women decent and good thinking? We tell the mother to return to work soon, that is strong, not loosen, do not give up, that we want, to be brave, to take care of herself, taking claw, fight, go ahead. While

expel all mothers of recollection and silence Maternity and while we recognize only in the public or successful, we'll still all responsible for each baby who decides to leave, tired of solitude, quiet and cool .
Laura Gutman

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