I liked this article Crianza Natural. My daughter is one which "tune the transistor" when I'm in pajamas and is free the other breast. But when I see that look weird, immediately remove your hand and cover your face ... there I have to say "Where is my child?" who will pinch me? "
thousand ways to breastfeed
For Nelly Bonyata, BS, IBCLC
All these are normal ways to nurse for older babies and children. Many times this can be fun, but what happens if you do not like any of these gestures? Although it is normal and understandable that the baby does this, there is no reason why the mother has to bear behaviors that are painful or uncomfortable with breastfeeding. Tips
contain disturbing attitudes
Start early is to encourage appropriate behavior to take the breast, and stop unwanted gestures as soon as possible. For example, many mothers start to use code words, long before the baby can talk, and even a very small baby may learn not to bite while nursing.
Be firm, clear, consistent and consistent with your expectations
Be patient
behavioral changes take time. Wait a minute
Many of these acts reflect a phase in which your baby is experimenting with what can or can not do while nursing. If a particular behavior is annoying you, one option is to wait a bit to see if the novelty goes away. Distract and redirect
• Find another way to occupy your child's hands. We can suggest to touch his body or clothes, instead of yours. Show how you can caress your arm instead of pinch. Try to control your hands with other activities, such as tickling, kissing, blowing, play finger plays, counting fingers, clap, etc. •
Give your baby something you can play while nursing. For example, a small toy, scarf, etc. If your baby does not care about the first thing you give, keep trying with different sizes and textures (hard, soft, rough, smooth). If your baby wants to play with your hair, your nose or the other breast, try to find something with a texture similar size that can be replaced. • Wear a scarf
nursing or a flashy scarf to redirect the attention of your baby. •
Speak, read a book or tell a story while you nurse. The songs skirt and finger plays also can be fun. Try to discourage
annoying gestures
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If your baby plays with the other breast ("tune the transistor"), you can try wearing a bra or other garment of difficult access, or cover the other breast by hand or arm. You can combine this with the distraction and redirection of which we spoke above. • Ask yourself
a firm response: "To" or "Leave covered for Mom" \u200b\u200bor "If you keep doing what we have to stop breastfeeding." Use a firm voice but not as hard as you can scare your baby. You can also hug him or hold his hand to repeat what you said. •
Stops taking if your child continues and explain in simple words why you stopped. Say something like, "I can not give you breast-feed if you're moving. Let's play and try again in a short time, when you want to be quiet. " Offer the breast after a few minutes, or wait until your child asks for it again.
Sometimes breastfeeding in public with a baby who is easily distracted can be quite complicated. Maybe your son or daughter insists on get on the shirt and let all but naked. If situations like this make you feel uncomfortable, try to provide some water or other beverage or snack that distract you.
If you feel uncomfortable breastfeeding in public, try to do it before you leave home and tell your son or daughter who can take it again as you come to a place more private. But beware, this can work if the baby is at least 18 months and not too tired. A baby less than or exhausted certainly can not wait.
Before leaving home, talk to your son or daughter's behavior while you are waiting outside. For example, if you like to get on the shirt, ask for help to keep it covered while you're out.
Can you put "rules" different for nursing home and in public?
Of course! There are many situations where we have different expectations about what is appropriate or not in public and in private, and breastfeeding is just one more of these situations. There is a time and a place for fun in infancy as a stunt, but most mothers prefer to breastfeed in public in a more discreet and relaxed. Most children learn without difficulty that there are different rules for different situations. If your son or daughter does not understand this "double standard", tries to maintain consistent standards to be a little higher.
Source: http://www.kellymom.com/babyconcerns/distractible-baby.html
Editorial: 2/15/1999. Page modified: 09/16/2005
E. Translation García-Peña for Breeding Natural ®: 22/09/2008
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